Stimulate your prostate with butt plugs
If you’ve ever had much of a conversation with a woman about sex, chances are you’ve probably heard of the g-spot. That mythical place that brings so much pleasure and happiness to women during sex. But you might be wondering, do men have one? While men don’t have a g-spot in the same way women do, they do have something that can be stimulated in a very similar way: the prostate gland.
What is the prostate gland?
The prostate gland (sometimes referred to as the p-spot or male g-spot) is a small walnut shaped gland located in a man’s lower regions, roughly between the inner end of the penis and the rectum. Its primary function is to produce liquid which helps men have healthy sperm, and contains some muscles which help with ejaculation. Due to its role in ejaculation, stimulating the prostate can be quite a pleasurable experience for some men. When stimulating your prostate for sexual pleasure, you can produce some of the most intense and body shaking orgasms that a man can possibly have, as well as some pretty impressive ejaculations.
How do you find your prostate gland?
The easiest way to access your prostate gland is through the anus, as it allows you to touch it at angles which make stimulating it fairly easy while already engaging in sexual activity. As with any anal activity, be sure to use plenty of lubrication and take it slowly when inserting things. You might also want to give yourself a good clean down there before you start. If faecal matter is something you’re worried about, you could wear a pair of latex gloves while you start exploring. The simplest way to start is with just a finger, as you can bend it once inside and search around to find where your prostate actually is. With most men, it will be located a couple of inches inside your rectum, towards your belly button. You might be able to feel a small bump when you find it, but sometimes it is easier to let someone else feel for you. When you do find it you should know though, as it feels unlike most other sexual stimulation.
I’m not comfortable with anal yet, can I still stimulate my prostate?
Yes! While it might be a little more difficult to achieve the same feelings externally, it is possible to give your prostate some love by stimulating your perineum. This is the fleshy area between your testicles and your anus. By simply giving a massage to the area, the internal tissue around the area which is attached to your prostate will help stimulate the gland. Combine these massages with some stroking of the penis and you’ll already be feeling something new and different.
I’ve found it, now what?
Once you manage to locate your prostate gland, it’s up to you to figure out the best way to stimulate it. Some people like to feel constant pressure on it, leading to very strong erections and ejaculations. Others prefer a gentle stroking or massage action, or maybe even some vibration. The most important part of stimulating your prostate is to try and stay as relaxed as you can. Anal play can sometimes be uncomfortable and it definitely takes some getting used to the new feelings, but if you aren’t relaxed, you probably aren’t going to have a great time. You also need to make sure you’re being gentle, as sudden strong touches can cause your rectum to contract which makes it much more difficult to stay relaxed. There are many different positions you can adopt while stimulating your prostate so feel free to experiment! Ultimately this is a highly personal thing and you’ll have to figure out what works best for you.
Using a plug for prostate stimulation
Butt plugs give you a great tool to use when stimulating your prostate. Not only can they be larger than your fingers, which means more surface to work with at once, they can also be specifically designed to help with prostate stimulation. Prostate stimulation butt plugs usually come with a slight curve near the end, which presses on your gland while they are inserted. If vibration is your thing, you can achieve this feeling very easily with a vibrating plug rather that finding random household objects to put up there. Perhaps the best part about using a butt plug though, is the base of the plug allows you to easily adjust and reposition it, making it much easier for you to find the kind of feeling you like best.
Do women have one too?
Unfortunately, as the prostate is a gland designed for sperm related purposes, women don’t carry one. But don’t let that put you off, I’m sure your men will love it if you want to get involved and find better ways to pleasure them! You can combine penis stroking and playing with a butt plug for prostate stimulation. If you’re feeling particularly adventurous, you could combine prostate massage with roleplay and tie your man down while you pleasure him. Once you’ve had enough practise, you can work on giving your partner the most intense and exciting orgasm they’ve ever had.
As you can see, there’s a lot to explore when it comes to male prostate stimulation. So, whether you’re a guy or a girl looking to please her man, be sure to check out our butt plugs and start exploring your prostates today!